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                     C atoctin                                                                                               suffered a long, hard pregnancy,



                               K IDs                    For kids and parents alike                                           she provided for this beautiful baby
                                                                                                                             a safe resting place. After days in
                                                                                                                             labor, with hours of pushing, their
                                                                                                                             precious baby arrived. And when
                                                                                                                             she was born, the hospital staff (who
                    by Anita DiGregory                                                                                       were all amazing) laid that sweet
                                                                                                                             little one on her mom, skin-to-skin,
                                                                                                                             where this newborn found her safe
                                 “A Resting Place”                                                                           resting place.
                                                                                                                                I guess that demonstrates
                                                                                                                             the exhilarating, exhausting
                                                                                                                             rollercoaster ride that is
               We all have our heroes, our        child was lost and could not be      worrying…no matter how old they       motherhood: the sadness and tears,
            role models, those who inspire        found for days. She had compassion   get” (and her oldest is 57).          the worries and anxiety, the utter
            us, and those who we aspire to        for a young bride and groom who         Don’t get me wrong; it isn’t       joy and celebration. This is the
            imitate. Ever since I was a little    ran out of wine at their wedding     all doom and gloom. There are         undeniable part of being a mother:
            girl, I had a special love for Mary.   feast, and she interceded for them   MOMents of unimaginable joy,         to be a mother is to be a cheerleader,
            As the Blessed Mother, she was my     to her Son.                          celebrating in their happiness,       intercessor, consoler, crier, worrier,
            heavenly mother; I confided in her,     She must have suffered silently    successes, and triumphs! Recently,    celebrator, confident, and resting
            telling her my scariest fears, hopes,   when her Son grew older and        I had the absolute blessing of        place. (This is why, even at my
            and dreams.                           traveled far from home, spreading    becoming a grandmother for the        advanced age, I still feel better when
               As I have grown older, my love     a message that often earned him      first time! The delight of watching   talking with my mom!)
            and admiration for her have only      many enemies. And, I imagine after   my baby become a father is               Personally, this rollercoaster ride
            grown. I still confide in her, asking   long trips away, he would return   indescribable, not to mention the     has been quite intense these past few
            her to whisper my prayers to her      to her and receive her motherly      joy of meeting, holding, and loving   months, lots of changes. As I try to
            Son. But now that I am a mother       love and care, and even then, she    my new grandchild. She is the most    prepare physically and emotionally
            myself, she has become to me the      would become his resting place.      beautiful blessing!                   for another little one leaving the
            Model of Motherhood. Think            Eventually, Mary witnessed her          But before she was born,           nest, I must say it has been rough.
            about it; she has experienced it all!  Son being bullied and tortured      I witnessed her mom suffer            Today, at Mass, she laid her head on
               Newly pregnant, she traveled       mercilessly. Helplessly, she watched   tremendously for months with        my shoulder, just like she had done
            (probably on foot) to visit her       him suffer a long, agonizing death.    terrible “morning sickness”         when she was little…and I soaked in
            cousin, Elizabeth, where she stayed   And after, they placed his lifeless   morning, noon, and middle of         the joy of that MOMent…and again
            to help care for her, support her,    body in her arms, where she again    the night. As my daughter-in-law      being her resting place.
            and eventually assist her in the      became his resting place.
            care of her newborn baby. Later,        These days, I find more and
            when she was in her ninth month       more that she is my resting place as
            of pregnancy, she accompanied         well. She gets it; she’s been there.
            her husband, traveling far from       And with her I can (almost) exhale.
            home to a foreign land where her        Let’s face it: this motherhood
            husband would have to beg for         thing is super hard. Logically, you
            shelter. As if that was not enough,   would think it would get easier
            she then gave birth in a manger.      as they get older. Maybe in some
            She swaddled her baby, loved Him,     respects it does. But honestly, for
            and protected Him. A brand new        me, as my children have gotten
            mother, Mary held her Son in her      older and their struggles and
            loving arms, and she became his       challenges have gotten tougher,
            resting place.                        this motherly load has gotten a
               What a mom! But it does not        lot heavier. My mother-in-law was
            stop there. She had to relocate to    visiting recently and randomly
            a new home with her family. She       remarked of her own experience,
            suffered terribly when her young      “As a mother, you never stop
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